Jakki Jones’ Diary of a Mum: Sibling Rivalry


Welcome to Jakki Jones’ Diary of a Mum column. Each month, the illustrator shares her adventures in motherhood.

Adding another child to a family is always going to shift the dynamic. When I got together with my husband Kelly, I became a step mum overnight. We had our first daughter, Riley, together in 2016. I remember when Riley was born, our ‘baby of the family’ Misty (who was 9 at the time) was a bit wobbly ahead of her impending arrival. We noticed her behaviour changed and she became lot more emotional in the lead up. It lead to a big breakdown one particular evening with Daddy, where she revealed she was worried about being left out. At the time, Colby, our eldest, was doing entrance exams for high school and I was caught up with being pregnant – naturally she felt the attention was drifting from her, and at that particular point in time, she was probably right.

Of course, when the baby arrived, Misty took to being a big sister like a duck to water and absolutely loved the new addition and her new role within the family. There was no jealousy whatsoever.

Riley and Marley enjoying some cuddles

This time around being pregnant with Marley – it was Riley’s turn to have her position and role questioned. In the lead up, she was so excited at the prospect of a new baby sister and told everyone she met about it. Cut to when he actually arrived – I think she was stunned!

We called home from the hospital and told her that in fact she now had a baby brother and her response was, well, disappointingly flat! When we brought him home and they met for the first time, she just stared at him and was quiet. Almost contemplative; summing up who this little person was and wondering how long he was going to stick around for.

The days that followed she realised he was not going anywhere – and we witnessed some very special moments; smiles, kisses and secret chats. I could see Riley was falling in love with Marley, just like the rest of the family had from the off. Our love was not being taken away from her, and we reassured her of this every single day.

Marley’s not in the mood for sisterly love…

But even with this affirmation, we have noticed that Riley’s behaviour has been questionable at times; particularly when I am feeding the baby, or friends and family are ‘cooing’ over the baby. The behaviour shifts and the cheeky Riley comes out to play. Of course, this is textbook, especially when I compare notes with friends who have had a second (or more) babies.

It’s been an unusual time for us all due to the virus, and with strict rules in place and not being able to see friends, or do usual things like got to the park, or have playdates, it’s hard to know if lockdown has had a greater effect on the young brain, or if it is in fact the result of a new arrival – or perhaps it’s a mix of both.

marley-riley-sibling-rivalry-What I have found incredible to witness is the love that is growing daily between each of the siblings. Despite the varying age gaps – 15, 13, 4 and 3 months – the bond is so evident, and it makes me and my husband so proud.

Being a parent to four kids is absolutely exhausting, but we wouldn’t change it for the world… Well I say that, let’s wait and see what a family holiday – mid global pandemic – looks like. More on that next month!

Jakki Jones’ Top Picks 

Star Pick: Kirstie Le Marque Compass Necklace


Compass_Necklace_1080x1080One of my best mates gave me this compass necklace when Marley was born to help, “guide me through these uncertain times!”. I absolutely love the design and the thought behind it and haven’t taken it off since.

Compass Necklace from Kirstie Le Marque, £325

Murad City Skin SPF 50

murad-jakki-jones-top-picks-diary-of-a-mumI wear SPF every day and with the recent weather we have been having lately I have been slapping it on even more than usual. This cream by Murad has been one of my favourites. It’s super lightweight and protects against the usual harmful effects of the sun from UV rays, pollution and even blue light from Screens. Which let’s face it, we could all use with some extra protection right now given the amount we are using our screens more now, than ever.

Murad City Skin SPF 50, £60.00 

Rainbow Organic Muslin Swaddle

Rainbow Organic Muslin SwaddleI love rainbow designs, and this swaddle is just divine, so soft and looks awesome in the pram or even dropped over my shoulder (which is a lot at the moment). I think it could also double up beautifully as a sarong when I go on holiday!

 Rainbow Organic Muslin Swaddle from Pattie & Co, £22

Ewan the Dream Sheep

sweetdreamers-ewan-the-dream-sheep-baby-sleep-aid-grey_100820_1024x1024@2xI’ve heard lots of wonderful things about this sleep aid and they have just unveiled a brand new eco makeover, so I’m delighted to hear it’s kind to the environment, as well as kind to my (and Marley’s) sleepy brain!

Ewan the Dream Sheep from Sweet Dreamers, £29.99 

Meminio Memory Case

This is got to be one of the best gifts I received when Riley was born: a special memory case to keep all of Riley’s keepsakes. Plus, it looks beautiful in her bedroom. I had to get Marley one as soon as he was born and have already been storing away special things. I know one day they will love looking back at their ‘firsts’, special cards and treasured items.

Meminio Memory Case, £140

Scamp & Dude Baby Vest

SCAMP_DUDE_vest-top-picksI absolutely love Scamp & Dude and have been a fan since their launch 4 years ago. The colours and print designs bring me so much joy – and I love that the whole family can have a matching item!

Baby Vest from Scamp & Dude, £25

Jakki Jones’ Diary of a Mum: Our New Normal

Coming home after Marley’s arrival was different to how we had envisioned. Pre-lockdown we had planned for Kelly’s parents to come over from Wales and stay with us for a couple of weeks, as we had done when our daughter Riley was born.

We loved having Beryl (Granny) and Oscar (Granchy) with us in the family home in those early few weeks, as it was a great bonding time for us all. They really helped us in those tiring, early weeks with a newborn. We were obviously looking forward to this happening again, little did we know a global pandemic would change our plans.

This time around, an empty house has been most unusual. I still can’t help comparing this situation to what was (back when Riley was born), and wishing for that similar experience: The house was buzzing, people were in and out, Kelly’s parents were permanently topping us and our guests up with tea and coffee and being amazingly supportive, silent helpers.

My parents and sisters also used to pop over and, as a new mum, I loved receiving those amazing and supportive cuddles. This time – it was just Kelly, myself and four kids, and not one knock on the door! Quite the difference.

It’s been intense few weeks, and although nice to have our family bubble, I’ve really missed seeing our immediate family and friends and have felt resentful having the first chapter of Marley’s life so isolated.

jakki-jones-diary-of-a-mum-feature-imageThankfully, over the last few weeks the restrictions have been lifting slightly, and we are gradually getting out a bit more and seeing people. However, there is still an uneasy feeling in the air. I remember going into the chemist soon after Marley was born and felt quite on edge when people approached me and the baby to say ‘congratulations’.

I didn’t feel comfortable being so close and almost rushed the conversation in order to make a speedy exit. This is not right – and that is certainly not me. I love a chat. I hate the way that I’ve become so worried and wary…but speaking with friends I am not alone.

2020 is not the year we ever imagined it to be. But with these worrying times, there are also many blessings and for me, being a mother second time around has been an incredible experience so far. I am loving every single minute. The broken nights don’t seem as hard this time and I feel more relaxed in my parenting. Riley has taken to being a big sister very well, although she’s not impressed with all the presents he’s getting and certainly has something to say about that!

Over the next few weeks we are looking forward to spending time with both sets of grandparents and seeing friends we haven’t seen since before the lockdown. Hopefully a little bit of normality will return!

Jakki Jones’ Top Picks 

Star Pick: Brora Cashmere Knitted Baby Blanket

knitted-baby-blanket-broraMarley has been wrapped in this beautiful blanket since he was born. Not only is it a gorgeous colour – it’s the softest most exquisite knit ever. Perfect for newborn baby skin.

Cashmere Knitted Baby Blanket, Brora, £179.00 

Scola Chubbi Paint Markers

Chubbie Markers Pearl-Metallic coloursSince lockdown we have been doing lot of craft and art work as a family and absolutely love Scola. They have great products, bright colours, and easy to use. These Chubbi markers are definitely a winner in our house as they don’t spill, are are fast drying and non-messy paints.

Chubbi Paint Marker Pens, Scola, £20 for 8 

Polarn O. Pyret Boys’ Jacket

boys-jacket-polarnI’ve just discovered this gorgeous Swedish brand, this little jacket looks like a mini version of one of Daddy’s, so it’s definitely a winner in our house.

Polarn O. Pyret Boys’ Jacket, £45.00

Mimi and Lula Face Masks

mimi-and-lula-face-maskAn essential item for all of us right now, Mimi and Lula’s matching adult and child face coverings boasts a handful of super cute prints and designs. I’m loving this floral number, but the polka-dots and star prints are also pretty cool.

Mimi and Lula Face Mask, £8 (child), £10 (adult)

Rachel Riley Cardigan

rachel-riley-blue-baby-cardiganAs you know I’m a huge Rachel Riley fan – and have adored her dresses for years! Now I have a boy, so he is going to to get a preppie makeover. This cardigan is just adorable!

Rachel Riley Cardigan, £29

Bugaboo Buggy Board

bugaboo-buggy-boardRiley has to make way for her baby brother and is no longer in the buggy anymore – this buggy board is a game changer – all of the kiddies on one cart! Also she loves sitting on it and watching Marley.

Bugaboo Buggy Board, £90

Lil Cubs x Mr Men Muslins

lil-cubs-mr-men-mulsinsI adore this collection by Lil Cubs! The images take me back to my childhood and Riley loves seeing Marley swaddled in this muslin as she has recently taken a great interest in the books!

Lil Cubs x Mr Men Muslin, £20.00

Inch Blue Leather Shoes

inch-blue-leather-baby-shoesI’ve adored this company since Riley was born. Not only are the shoes made using the softest most beautiful leather – but they are handmade in Wales!

Inch Blue Leather Shoes, £22.00

Diary of a Mum: Marley’s Arrival

Well, baby is here! We welcomed our son Marley Levi Jones to the world on May 1st, and what a journey he’s had already.

In the weeks leading up to Marley’s arrival I was very concerned that my husband would not be able to be present at the birth as there were conflicting reports around how the lockdown protocols were affecting maternity units. Closer to the date however, we were thankfully informed that Kelly would be able to be at the birth – but would have to leave shortly after, before I moved with baby to the maternity ward.

Due to the way Marley was lying, I had a planned Caesarean booked, (as I also did with Riley). Having been through a Caesarean birth before I was comfortable with what was ahead as I had a really good experience last time and recovered quickly and well.

The day before Marley’s scheduled birth however I began to experience sensations I’d never encountered before. I was unsure if they were ‘Braxton hicks’ or in fact early labour contractions, so I stayed in touch with my doctor that day and thankfully the pains subsided that afternoon. I went to bed early that night praying for a good night’s sleep ahead of the big day. However I was woken at 00.30 with pains which I can now denote as ‘Contractions’, and they were arriving every 5 minutes. Marley wanted out sooner than planned!

We immediately rushed to the hospital. As I had not prepared for natural labour at all, I was totally freaking out and finding the pain pretty unbearable! The midwife and my hubby were telling me to breathe through the pain, but I found myself resisting and almost holding my breath. Thank goodness my new best friend, the Anaesthetist, helped me out soon after and Marley entered the world at 4.20am by emergency Caesarean weighing 5.7lbs.

Jakki and Marley in the maternity ward. Marley is wearing his Midnight Gang sleepsuit from Fred and Noah

I will never forget when they handed him to me and I saw these two big balls coming towards my face; I was in total shock as I’d been convinced I was having a girl! It was a wonderful surprise and holding Marley on me in those first moments was incredible. Ultimately I was just so relieved he was safely here; our little lockdown baby.

Kelly was only able to stay for a couple of hours until we left the recovery room and didn’t see us until we were discharged thre days later. I felt really sad saying goodbye – it was a bittersweet moment bringing our beautiful son into this world and then having to be separated from each other.

I found comfort knowing Riley would have her daddy and they would look after each other. My job was now to focus all my energy and efforts into my new little man and spend the weekend getting to know him. In some ways I was relieved this wasn’t my first birth experience as I felt more confident and calm in those early days, but in other ways I found myself also comparing birth experiences and considering what was missing from the usual experience of hospital birth.

This time round the ward felt eerily quiet; I was isolated in a private room with staff only coming into see me if I needed them, or to do my observations. The midwives were incredible though; dressed in full PPE it felt really strange not to be able to properly see their faces but I tried to find comfort in connecting with their twinkly kind eyes. The hospital staff as usual were working tirelessly around the clock in very unusual and challenging circumstances, and I appreciate everything they did for me that weekend. I will never forget it.

Riley watching over her new baby brother

As well as Kelly, I really missed seeing my family and friends coming to visit in hospital, and the celebratory feeling on the ward. As I was unable to leave my room I didn’t get to meet other mums or babies on the ward and I missed the buzz, the laughter, even the cries. Zoom became another new best friend that weekend and I introduced Marley to my family on a group video call, such a weird experience!

We have been home a few weeks now and have found our flow. There have been unexpected benefits to the unusual circumstances, like being able to spend more time together. Despite everything we are in our little family bubble now, with no pressure to tidy the house for visitors or get ready and we will be able to tell Marley he was part of a unique period in history; our very own lockdown baby.

Jakki Jones’ Top Picks

Star Pick:  The Bugaboo Bee5

bugaboo-bee5I adore this model from Bugaboo, it’s such a perfect size for city life, and the carry cot is just perfect for those early snuggly days.

Bugaboo Bee5, Bugaboo from £869

Connock London Hand Sanitiser

Hand Sanitiser, Connock London, £10connock-hand-sanitiser

Sleepyhead Bananas For Your Pod

sleepyhead-bannanaBananas For You Pod, Sleepyhead, £155

Fred and Noah Midnight Gang Print Sleepsuit

midnight-gang-print-sleepsuitPrinted cotton Midnight Gang sleepsuit, Fred and Noah, £22

Aden and Anais Jungle Swaddles

swaddle-cloth-jakki-jones-top-picks Jungle 4-pack classic swaddles, Aden and Anais, £44.95

Babyopathy Essential Oil

Backpacker-essential-oilBackpacker pure essential oil, Babyopathy, £19.95

Diary of a Mum: Life in Lockdown

As lockdown continues, Jakki Jones reflects on the last few weeks of her pregnancy and prepares for a new arrival with a four-year-old in tow.  

As if being thrown into isolation during the middle of a global pandemic wasn’t weird enough, at 37 weeks pregnant I was made redundant from my job. It was a bit of a surprise and there was quite a bit of repetition in the reactions from my nearest and dearest…”No way! Aren’t you protected? You should sue them! They can’t do that!” Well – let me tell you; they can and they do.

I had devoted nearly a decade of my working life to the business and I was shocked and upset that they’d decided to shut the doors on me at my most vulnerable. It wasn’t personal however; this situation had meant they had to clos the whole department (hence the loophole around making a pregnant person redundant) so my pregnancy was ‘circumstantial’ in the eyes of employment law. There just wasn’t another role suitable for me and the whole department was shut down, letting go of three people. “Tough times” was the reply I got when appealing for my mat leave package.

Yes, these are tough times. I know I’m privileged in many ways, without needing to go into too much detail here. But I love my work, I’ve got my own mortgage and bills to pay and despite being married to a successful musician, I still want (and have) to pay them!

jakki-jones-pregnant-diary-of-a-mumThe recent global situation has thrown thousands of people into unemployment and there is an uncertain road ahead for many; the thought of finding a brand-new job with one child about to start school and another child imminently arriving is terrifying to be honest. My heart goes out to anyone in a similar position; it is challenging with the ground beneath your feet shifts and it’s happening to us all.


While, sadly, the last few weeks of my pregnancy were upsetting and stressful, and put a bit of a dark cloud over my head, it’s been a few weeks since redundancy happened and I have been trying to put things more into perspective and see things from a different angle. I am hoping this push maybe the start of something great to come. Maybe it’s the push that I needed…any ideas please do send my way. I am also open to job offers!

Before I get on with my next job hunt, this spring will see a big change in my life…baby incoming! Our next little love is due in May. At the time of writing I am expecting he or she in the next few days and I’ve got those happy-but-nervous butterflies in my tummy.

We are ‘ready’, so to speak, but can you ever be totally ready for a brand-new person in your life?! I know when I had Riley my life was turned upside down immediately – in a good way of course! It is a wonderful time and another big adjustment for us all.

jakki-and-riley-diary-of-a-mumIt will be different this time with no house full of visitors in the weeks after the birth; obviously the restrictions in place will be with us for the first few weeks of baby’s life at least, and although it will be a quieter time, I am excited for us to have a calm few weeks – as calm as a 4 year old will let us be anyway.

Jakki Jones’ Top Picks

Artipoppe Zietgeist Baby Leopard Classic, £302

jakki-jones-top-picksFor those that know me – know I am obsessed with Leopard Print! I am absolutely in love with this design and I cannot wait for baby to be here so I can wear it with him or her in tow, for our daily ‘one hour exercise out of the house!

Buy now from Artipoppe 

Medela Freestyle Flex Pump, £349


Buy now from Medela

Hunter Slides, £35


Buy now from Hunter

Binibamba X Tiba + Noir snuggler, £98


Buy now from Binibamba

Burts Bees All Aglow Lip & Cheek Stick, £12.99



As isolation hits, home schooling reigns and maternity leave begins, Jakki Jones tries to keep calm and carry on in her latest column. 

If you’d told me two weeks ago that I’d be quarantined in my house for the foreseeable future I never would have believed you. After pretty much hibernating through winter, I was looking forward to London springtime. And that’s for many reasons: the sun, the pink blossoms appear on the trees, birthday celebrations, Easter egg hunts, serotonin levels on the rise…

We live in a bustling neighbourhood with everything on our doorstep; your pick of coffee shops, gyms, restaurants, parks, pubs, bars. Now a textbook-beautiful spring week arrives, but everything’s suspended in order to contain the spread of coronavirus. It’s a ghost town filled with closed shutters, until further notice.

I was taken by surprise when nurseries and schools were almost instantly closed. The government advised that pregnant women were now in the same high-risk category as the elderly and vulnerable, and therefore have to self-isolate. This sent me in a complete panic. I’m not good at staying in at the best of times and always like to have somewhere to be. My anxiety levels began to creep up. How am I going to stay indoors for the foreseeable future and keep four-year-old Riley entertained?

@JakkiDoodles on Instagram

We happened to be in Wales that week when the news hit. This made the first few days somewhat easier as where we live is a very remote village. Self-isolating is exactly what we do when we go there – soak up the beautiful mountain views, breathe in the fresh air, and relax. However, it’s only usually for a couple of days – a week tops. We travelled back to London on day five – as we had to get back to see my elder stepchildren – and I felt scared and daunted.

My husband Kelly has been great keeping me calm and reassuring me to take it day by day. So that’s exactly what I’ve been doing. But home schooling? Now that wasn’t something I had planned for the beginning of my maternity leave.

When Monday arrived – our official first day at ‘home school’ – the clock struck 10.30am and it hit me… how the hell am I doing to get through the 12 weeks, minimum? Don’t get me wrong I love being with my daughter, but keeping her entertained in a learning environment is a challenge. I mirrored a timetable from her nursery to give me a guide to stick to. As well as the hourly ‘learning blocks’, there were also scheduled breaks, outdoor times and even mindful-moment slots. But I’ve been trying to stick to it, albeit loosely. After school finishes, we chill and watch a movie or play with toys.

Online classes have been a useful tool; our local dance academy has transferred all classes to a Zoom meeting place – with the kids dancing live from their living room. It’s been amazing how quickly Riley has adapted.

jakki-jones-diary-of-a-mum-rileyThat being said, she’s definitely aware of the virus and says she can’t wait for it to be over. I overheard her singing Tomorrow from Annie the other day – changing the lyrics to ‘tomorrow, tomorrow – the virus goes away tomorrow – it’s only a day away’, which broke my heart a bit. But Daddy Kelly is a brilliant music supply teacher, and we’re having daily singing and guitar lessons!

As I’m in the final few weeks of pregnancy I’ve been trying to be kind to myself where possible and taking a little time each day for this, and I can’t recommend it enough. In order to keep a bit of balance, run yourself a nice bath, pop on a face mask, have a glass of something nice (mine’s an Earl Grey), read a chapter of a book, try a bit of meditation or perhaps learn something new.

We’re in this for the long haul now and will need to adapt, stay positive and have something to look forward to. Hang in there mothers and mums-to-be, I hope you’re all doing OK and being kind to yourselves…

Jakki Jones reveals her top finds for this month…

Lavender Relaxing Bath Milk, £14.95, Weleda

Weleda Lavender Bath Milk


Goldfaden MD Doctor’s Scrub, £65, Space NK

Goldfaden MD Doctor's ScrubBUY NOW

Indulgence Face Mask Pack, £30, Skimono

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Cannabis Supercandle, £159, Malin + Goetz



Riley’s Star Product: Skillmatics Places Around Us, £19.99

SKM 200 Places Around Us

This brand offers great activities that help kids build their vocabulary while discovering new places. It was recommended to me by my sister Linda, who’s a teacher. During these next few months I’m going to need all the help I can get!


In her latest instalment, Jakki Jones and her growing bump take on a few sessions with a personal trainer.

Pregnancy second time around has definitely been a slightly different experience to my first. The main thing is, I guess, that I’ve had no rest and recoup time.

While pregnancy-number-one weekends were all about me slobbing around the house in my jim-jams and watching box sets, those so-called days off are now completely jam-packed with a mixture of ballet, hip hop, drama, playdates, birthday parties and so on. Saturday is easily the busiest day of any mum (and especially this one’s) week.

And for that reason my energy levels seem lower and I feel constantly knackered. As soon as Riley’s in bed at 7pm I’m desperate to hit the sack myself.

I guess I have to also consider the fact that I’m now four years older and the added daily journey to nursery each morning and afternoon, followed by the commute to work is naturally going to take its toll more. Come 9am I feel like I’ve done half a day’s work already!

On top of all that, my husband has been on a rigorous European tour so I’ve been solo parenting. Lots of people ask me if I find this challenging. The answer is yes and no.

Of course, I really miss having him around, and two pairs of hands are certainly better than one. However as we’ve been together for more than a decade, I’ve kind of gotten used to being by myself for a few weeks around touring schedules.

Obviously, when Riley was born the idea of being on my own for a few weeks without him was daunting, but in reality I’ve got Riley into a routine that really works. Coupled with the fact that she’s really well behaved during one-on-one time – presumably because she has my full attention – I cope very well on my own. Although I do wonder if this is all set to change once Baby Jones 2.0 arrives.

I signed up to a personal trainer two weeks before I found out I was pregnant. I must be one of the rare people with a PT who is actually putting on weight and body fat each week! But the training routine has been brilliant for my body and I’m absolutely loving it.

Two one-hour sessions per week of dedicated me-time. This money would usually be my gin-and- going-out fund, but it’s now instead going towards doing something good for body and I’m really enjoying the benefits.

It’s also been nice to share this experience with my friends and on social media, as I think some people are a bit daunted about doing the gym, especially weight-training when they’re pregnant.

David my PT has been great encouraging and supporting me and I really feel it’s done wonders for my strength, my mind and the baby itself. Happy mummy, happy baby and all that.

Saying that, I returned from the gym last week feeling great, and saw a friend I hadn’t seen in a few weeks who told me I was carrying differently compared to when pregnant with Riley.

Jakki Jones
@JakkiDoodles via Instagram

She told me I was bigger on my ‘tush’ and hip area – and that I must be expecting a boy! So much for my intentions of being a little trimmer. I was a little stunned by the honesty, but while those home truths have sent my lean maternity dreams out of the window, I’m sure a few more squats won’t hurt in the meantime…

Jakki Jones reveals her top finds for this month…

Plum Asiatic Pheasants Teacup and Saucer, £32, Burleigh

Cup and saucer

Seeing as I’m resigned to a sober nine months, tea has become my new best friend. And on a psychological level, it’s even better when served up in a very beautiful ceramic cup and saucer. I absolutely adore Burleigh designs, and this pretty pairing is just perfection! Who wouldn’t want to sip their Earl Grey from this?

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Skin Food, £12.95, Weleda

Skin food Weleda

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Naomi Cheetah Long Shirt Dress, £384, Melissa Odabash

Cheetah dress

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Body Silk Seamless Nursing Bra

Nursing bra

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Women’s Out N About Plus Boot, £110, Sorel

Jakki Jones’ Diary of a Mum: A Family Weekend to Remember

In her latest instalment, Jakki Jones, husband Kelly and daughter Riley – plus the growing bump – take a trip to Paris for a French family weekend to remember

Being married to a professional musician – as you can imagine – means he’s on the road a lot. Most recently he has been away on the Stereophonics’ European tour.

We thought it’d be a great opportunity for a family mini-break. Riley – our three year old – has never been to Paris, so we decided it would be a timely opportunity to take her! And with my baby bump growing fast, I figured it’s now or never… or at least for 2020 anyway.

Eurostar makes travel a whole lot easier with a little lady in tow. We set off early Sunday morning, feeling smug about our impressive packing. We pre-planned outfits for each day, made an immense packed lunch for the journey, and remembered all the usual tech devices, headwear and activity bag. Paris adventure– here we come!

Jakki Jones daughter
Riley’s Paris highlight was getting to join her daddy on stage for his encore.

As suspected, the Eurostar journey was gorgeous, pain free and comfortable. And with our M&S picnic, this was fine dining at its best! We arrived at the wonderful Hyatt Paris Madeleine later that day and Riley was delighted to be welcomed by a pick ’n’ mix stall in reception.

Kelly arrived a few hours later and we ran out to meet him as his car pulled up! Despite this being work for him, he was able to have a relaxing family evening, with a rare day off the following day.

Being tourists for only a couple of days it would be rude not to pay a visit to the Eiffel Tower. When we reached the top, who did we bump into, but Kelly’s bandmate, Adam!

Despite the drizzle, the view never disappoints, and Riley loved the excitement of it all. After taking in the Parisian panorama, we took a carousel ride and scoffed a delicious Nutella-filled crepe.

The highlight of the trip was most definitely our evening at daddy’s concert – where Riley was guest of honour. Every door was opened for her and a goodie bag was waiting for her in the dressing room, bursting with treats.

This being-on-the-road malarkey is brilliant! But there’s no doubt about it, attending a gig with a toddler is eventful; we moved from stage side to sound desk, up to the balcony and back to the dressing room for snacks, not easy at six months pregnant.

At the end of the gig, I suggested to Riley that we go to the side of the stage to see ‘daddy’s last song’. She ran to him as we bumped into him in the corridor ahead of the last track. A big good-luck hug certainly perked Kelly up before he took to the stage one last time.

Jakki Jones doodles
@JakkiDoodles via Instagram

As they started to play Dakota, Riley ran out on stage before I could pull her back. Luckily, she stopped, and just sat down crossed legged and began to clap at the side of the stage.

She watched her dad in amazement until the end where she jumped to her feet for a standing ovation. By this point the audience were now looking at Riley, rather than the band.

Elation peaked when Kelly summoned her over at the end of the song and lifted her up high to rapturous applause from the audience. Although she wasn’t fazed in the slightest it was a night for us all to remember. Now, perhaps a more chilled-out babymoon is on the cards next…

Jakki Jones reveals her top finds for this month…

Elwood Bag, £140, Tiba + Marl

I had a Silver Elwood gifted to me four years ago when I had Riley and it was literally a godsend. Not only does it look cool as hell, it’s so practical and even an insulated compartment for a bottle of milk (or mini bottle of prosecco!). This pastel pink number is a definite must for me… LOVE!

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Love Necklace, £50, Smell The Cactus

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Instant Eye Lift by Trish McEvoy, £40, Selfridges

Eye lift Trish McEvoy

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Roald Dahl™ & NHM™ Crocodile T-Shirt, £9, Marks and Spencer

Roald Dahl crocodile t shirt

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Faux Leather Knotted Headband, £45, Born In The Sun

Leather hairband

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Jakki Jones’ Diary of a Mum: New Beginnings

In this instalment, Jakki Jones opens up about becoming a mum (and stepmum) for the first time, and how she’s learning to juggle it all…

I was brought up in West London – a Londoner through and through – and am fortunate to have had a gorgeous childhood. With Irish parents, I was the youngest of three girls and still to this day love being the baby!

Music has always been my passion, so it wasn’t a surprise that I went on to study classical music – and have since fallen into a career in music and entertainment. I head up the talent and influencer relations department at an American PR firm called PMK*BNC. I deal with a lot of musicians, actors and celebs in my daily work and – like most – balance a crazy family life on the side.

I started working at PMK*BNC in 2011, prior to which I was at Warner Bros Records and MTV, where I booked talent for various shows. I also have a little side-hustle called Jakki Doodles, something that transpired out of mid-meeting doodling.

Over the last few years I have been fortunate enough to have cards published and sold in various shops such as Selfridges and Paperchase. But it was at MTV where I met my husband, Kelly (lead singer of British band Stereophonics) – and I may add – he has been my best booking to date. I have two wonderful step kids, Colby and Misty and I entered the parenting world relatively young, at the age of 25. My first experience of being a mother was through them.

Jakki JonesBecoming a stepmum overnight – and at such a young age – was sometimes quite challenging, but a great learning experience for me. This absolutely meant that when I did decide to become a mother, I was absolutely ready for it.

I became pregnant at 33. It was a good time for me personally – and my career – I felt confident. I took to motherhood ‘third-time round’ like a duck to water – everything felt familiar and dare I say it, easy? Riley, now three, is my world. I think being a stepmother definitely taught me to be selfless – if you can help bring up other people’s children, you can most certainly bring up your own.

I willingly took the full year’s maternity and enjoyed each and every day. And transitioning back to work wasn’t too daunting as I’d kept my foot in the door. I just desperately missed Riley in those early few months.

The juggle became even more apparent – and still to this day I feel like I’m spinning a million plates. Is this just what it’s going to be like? Luckily for me, the hours I work are flexible – the negative side being that I never switch off and am always on call. Entertainment certainly isn’t a 9-5 job.

Having Riley definitely helped me be a better step-parent and wife – as I saw things from a different perspective and finally saw everything I didn’t ‘get’ before. I was no longer a mum in training! Just when everything seemed to calm in the Jones household with a now 15 year old, 12 year old and three-and-a-half year old – we thought we’d crank it up a gear!

Jakki Jones
@JakkiDoodles via Instagram

2020 is going to bring us a whole new set of challenges with an exciting new chapter in May, as we’re expecting another baby! Naturally, I penned this little doodle to tell our friends and family the good news. Let the crazy commence…

Jakki Jones’ top finds…

High-waisted Printed PowerHold Leggings, £84, Fabletics

Fabletics leggingsI’m literally obsessed with – and living in – these leggings by Kate Hudson at the moment. They have a super-high cut, which makes them really comfy over my bump.

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Pom Pom Cluster Alice Band, £12, Mimi and Lula

Mimi and Lula hair band

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Daisy Smocked Dress, £109, Rachel Riley

Rachel Riley pink floral dress

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Dry shampoo, £18, Living Proof

Living Proof Dry Shampoo

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Cold Plasma Plus Advanced Serum, £75, Perricone MD

Cold Plasma Plus advanced serum

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